Navyaa

This sentence is not an announcement. It’s a quiet conclusion.

It comes after exhaustion—not the kind sleep can fix, but the kind that settles in when you’ve lived too long out of alignment with yourself. It reflects a state of mind where noise has finally lost its authority over you. Where approval, urgency, and obligation no longer override inner truth.

My state of mind

I am no longer scattered.
Earlier, my mind was always negotiating—Should I adjust? Should I stay silent? Should I try harder to be understood? That constant bargaining created inner chaos. Now, there is stillness. Not because life is perfect, but because I have stopped fighting myself to fit into places that were never meant to hold me.

There is clarity in knowing that peace is not something to be earned through sacrifice. It is something to be protected through boundaries.

My thought process

My thinking has shifted from reactive to intentional.

I no longer ask, “Will this please others?”
I ask, “Will this cost me my integrity, my energy, or my self-respect?”

I understand now that every yes is a withdrawal from a finite inner account. And I refuse to go bankrupt emotionally just to maintain appearances. I don’t overexplain. I don’t justify my distance. Silence, for me, has become a form of honesty.

What changed me as a person

I used to believe availability was kindness.
Now I understand that discernment is wisdom.

What changed me were the moments when I gave too much and received emptiness in return. The times I stayed where I was tolerated, not valued. The emotional labor spent on people who only showed up when it benefited them.

These experiences didn’t harden me—they refined me.
I didn’t lose empathy; I learned where it belongs.

I am still kind, but no longer careless with my kindness.
I am still open, but no longer accessible to everything and everyone.

What people should expect from me

People should expect clarity, not compliance.
Presence, not people-pleasing.
Depth, not convenience.

If I engage, it is because I choose to—not because I feel obligated.
If I stay, it is because there is mutual respect—not emotional dependency.
If I leave, it is without drama, because alignment doesn’t require explanation.

What I no longer expect from anyone

I no longer expect understanding.
I no longer expect consistency from inconsistent people.
I no longer expect effort from those who only know how to take.

Expectations are contracts we silently sign with disappointment. I have canceled those agreements.

Instead, I expect from myself:

• To honor my intuition
• To walk away without guilt
• To choose peace over proof
• To live in truth, even if it makes me misunderstood

This quote is not about isolation.
It is about self-loyalty.

“I am no longer available for things that do not align with my soul” means: I have finally decided to live from within, not for the world’s approval.

And that changes everything.

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